Did I word this in some awkward or offensive way?

Hello All

ok ill jump out there.

due to other issues I have chosen a more service roll in the BDSM lifestyle
at munch I say I'm . not not very submissive but a well trained slave.

so you asked ......

Was the service to someone in a leadership position, a high profile person, or?

2 of my partnerships were almost exclusive in a service roles ,
yes one was 1 of 3 slaves to a high profile fem Domme.
the other I was primary slave with a lot of part time help LOL.

Was the experience positive, negative, or simply one of growth?

hopefully everything we do is part of growth .
and some are positive and some negative.
the only real negative I have to blame myself for.

it is easy to give too much . or to know when to pull back alittle .
we tend to get blind in our service and then not notice until we
are feeling lonely that all that hard work wasn't really asked for.
suddenly you can feel unappreciated but its not really anyone fault
when you just keep pouring it on and over doing.

What sort of service?

some of it within the lifestyle. like target practice or making toys.
or kitchen help for the play party . helping to run classes.
but also 24/7 type of help. running errands . cooking. decorating.
gardening lol. companionship :-)


Was there a formal contract and time limit or?

one had a time set contract. the other started with a very formal contract
but that was just more of a learning curve thing. the relationship went
on for years after that .

What, if any, rewards were you given?

hmmm no actual rewards given really .
personal satisfaction in a job done well.
like at the end of a class or play party , we the guest left
and stopped to compliment the hostess ( my Mistress) and that her .
id be standing in the kitchen door way and beaming that I had helped
to make my Mistress present well in the community .
made me feel good that I could help.

Was the relationship strictly service or?

one was . the other was an occasional play session or two .
both were deep friendships though .

What made it wonderful or awful and what could have been improved that might have universal, or at least more broad, application?

well I think I covered that. what I did learn or grow in my own is to communicate.
sounds simple enough and we do it i'm sure. but to actually be brave enough to ask
for what we need. even when we think the answer is going to be no . because then
it makes our choices even harder.

my own history your mileage may vary .
love to hear of others. and happy to answer questions were I have confused the topic LOL

play nice
katt