We have a safe space to offer to a woman interested in becoming our personal slave/maid. We offer a safe haven to a girl who needs a place to call her home, while providing much needed services to a Dominant couple. 39/54. All replies answered!
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Fri, December 21, 2007 - 3:09 PMYay! Another sub-paragraph live-in post. Man, this is creepy. Need a place to live? Become my BSDM slave! -
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Fri, December 21, 2007 - 9:54 PMMike, you overlooked the really cool part about getting to move to Chicago. Now, who hasn't wanted to shovel snow off the driveway whilst in sup-space? -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 1:14 AM24/7 = 3.43
39/54 = 0.72
39/54 sounds like a good deal! -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 7:59 AMWhat the hell did he mean by 39/54? -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 8:51 AM39/54 would be their ages most likely.
Don't throw rotten vegies at me guys..but really..is it necessary to blast everyone that posts looking for someone? His post is WAY better than so many that we see where people can't write in complete sentences and don't say a thing about themselves or what they are looking for. If anyone is curious about this guy they can check his profile or write and ask questions. Can we leave it at that and be encouraging rather than mean?
*ducks behind the couch*
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 10:01 AMI'm glad you posted that Kelly.
It bothers me that anytime someone says something that people don't necessarily agree with, or says it in a way people here don't agree with, people seem to try to force them to be quiet or to conform to their own way of doing things, through harassment and peer pressure.
I think it's a childish tactic to reach a selfish end. -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 10:40 AMKelly & Goat are, of course, correct. However, when one posts a shallow personal ad on the wrong forum, it can make them open season for the easily amused. Was the poster sincere, naive, or trolling for a victim? I can't say and only our S.O.S. Moderatress gets to deem what is appropriate here. -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 10:48 AMYou are right, Kelly and I are no moderators... I wouldn't want to be the moderator and have to be resonsible for everyones conduct here.
And don't get me wrong, I love your sense of humor and chuckled when I read what you wrote.
It just breaks my heart when I come to what I believe is an enlightened group of people and see the herd mentality creeping in. -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 1:32 PMI think we know what happens to herds when it is open season.
It is more fun to make smartass comments to or about a trolling Dom, yet quite mean to gang up on a sub/slave who posts something innocently. I did feel bad after making a flippant remark on Ziki's thread, got called on it, too. But when someone trolls on this tribe from 2000 miles away, they might be asking for it. -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 2:35 PMPerhaps some of the less-than-friendly remarks were based on interactions with this guy on other Tribes. He's not exactly an innocent newbie. He's posted several egotistical threads on the BDSM Uncensored Tribe, and posted unsafe and potentially dangerous suggestions on the Kinky Crafts Tribe.
I agree that it's unfair to simply dump on someone because they're nw and not following Tribe etiquette, and I've seen it happen more than once. I think we need to be more charitable in how we welcome newcomers to these Tribes.
But if we make an error, I would rather that we erred on the side of being suspicous of know-it-all Dom's. Far too many women newcomers are solicited and/or drawn into D/s or M/s involvements without having any idea what they're getting into. Sometimes I see our suspicions as being a public service. -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 3:48 PM>>>He's posted several egotistical threads on the BDSM Uncensored Tribe, and posted unsafe and potentially dangerous suggestions on the Kinky Crafts Tribe.
--->So it's exactly like I said... Someone doesn't like what he has to say, so a bunch of bullies jump on him to either shut him up or make him go away. How third grade...
>>>Sometimes I see our suspicions as being a public service.
--->Ah yes, the world police... That's why our military is spread out all over the globe and why our sons and daughters are being killed in Iraq, because we are the worlds police, because it takes a village to raise a child, and because without Rio helping out all of the poor vulnerable subs, they would all be doomed to becoming the prey of all of the predatory doms hunting on the internet....
Please pardon me if I don't agree with that point of view. -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 5:46 PMMy first thought in reading the post is that there is someone who wants a maid but isn't willing to pay for it. It just seems to me that if he was really interested in a submissive and understood the dynamic, he would spend more time letting the potential know about him and his partner, see if there is a connection, etc. etc. instead of making it sould like something from the want ads. Just my personal opinion.
Aside from that...it's a pretty big jump to go from posting on Tribe to the war in Iraq. If there is someone trolling me that someone else i know has had a bad experience with, i would really like to know about it. We are a community within a community, we should be looking out for each other. There is a huge potential for abuse. Also, by jumping on people that have objected to this particular person, especially calling them "third grade" and the "world police" aren't you being just as snarky and third grade as they are? It's not what people say...it's what they do that says the most about them. -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 5:59 PMHi Pandora! :)
Snarky: Yes.
Third Grade: No. I was saying it was so third grade for a bunch of bullies to jump on someone because they are different, or because they choose to do things differently, than the way they think things should be done.
Then Rio tries to justify what happened by proclaiming to be the knight in shining armor, dutifully protecting our vulnerable submissives from all of those predatory doms out there preying on them.
I just don't buy it. People are being clicky, and nasty, and I can't associate with that, without at least speaking up about it.
It seems so odd to me that people who participate in a lifestyle considered taboo and devient by the larger society, and who are frequently ostracized and persecuted by their community or forced to live in secrecy, when they get into a group of like minded people, can be just as intolerant and nasty as the people who have judged them.
So you don't like his tactic... Don't offer to enter his house. Don't advise a friend to consider entering his house. Don't invite him over or attend a party of his.... But why gang up on him? -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 6:06 PMSorry, i just don't see that really happening here. i have seen it in the past, but i don't see this as a ganging up, rather more of a lot of people with strong opinions. Again, just my personal viewpoint. -
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 6:15 PMI do appreciate your viewpoint Pandora and I'm glad you're participating in the discussion.
I hope you all have a wonderful weekend and happy holidays. :) -
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Sun, December 23, 2007 - 1:20 AMWhat about us 3rd grade bullies? Why are we always held back a grade on these tribe threads? How come all the nice kids get to play? When I grow up, I am going to be a really mean Dom, and you'll all want to come and clean my house.....but I won't let you!
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Mon, December 24, 2007 - 2:00 AMThank you, Rio. He could be sincere, but after the schlock he's posted on other lists, I would recommend anyone who is interested in this ad check this guy out and take all precautions they can. He has, unfortunately, made some egregiously inaccurate and offensive postings.
One should approach all unknown dominants with extreme caution, but especially a dom who has been shown to be ignorant or uncaring of safety in his postings.
Domina
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Sun, December 23, 2007 - 8:10 AMWell. since my opinion was asked. :)
1. 2000 miles away is irrelevant as this is not just a bay area tribe.
2. I don't necessarily agree with LH's style of conversation or his views but he isn't flaming, just not posting much.
3. I expect people, even submissives, to have a modicum of personal responsibility. If they simply said yes, dropped everything and moved in to escape their woes rather than using such an ad as a chance to begin a dialogue and getting to know you phase that took some time and effort on everyone's parts, then I sure don't have the amount of time and energy it would take to keep such folks safe.
The fact is, we're all adults, and new and/or submissive doesn't equal dumb and/or naive. If this guy was abusive, proven dangerous or what not, sure I'd kick him. But at this point, the only thing he's guilty of is personality traits and personal viewpoints that come across in ways that make me grumpy. -
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Sun, December 23, 2007 - 9:09 AMI'm not saying he's abusive or dangerous or anything like that. I will say that he's posted suggestions and ideas which would be potentially physically harmful for a sub, and I think it's entirely appropriate to call him out about it. That dosn't make us of us imperialistic warmongers, that's just common sense. -
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Wed, December 26, 2007 - 5:29 PMHi Rio.
Just out of curiousity, can you describe to me what he's said that was harmful?
I hope you all had a very nice holiday! -
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Wed, December 26, 2007 - 6:31 PMI'm curious as well about what was said that indicated this was someone that didn't play in a safe manner. I must not be on the same tribes.
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Thu, December 27, 2007 - 8:22 AMHere's the thread, from the Kinky Crafts tribe:
kinkytinker.tribe.net/thread/...94cda219 -
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Thu, December 27, 2007 - 5:10 PMThat's it? I was expecting to hear a lot worse.
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Thu, December 27, 2007 - 7:01 PMThere's the one where he was talking about forced wearing of latex and did not discuss the liklihood of extreme vaginal infections from this when worn for long periods. He's also just written some downright silly posts. He usually posts on one list at a time. And then does not post again on that list but moves on.
One of the things that makes him so ridiculous is that "we" stuff like he's got a split personality.
I would suggest a thorough investigation and definitely check out his references from others in the Chicago scene. They've got an active scene there, so if he can't give references, then that is a red flag right there.
Domina
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Re: Female slave/maid opening
Wed, December 26, 2007 - 5:27 PMVery well said Mercedes :)
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