What kind of service do you like to provide?

topic posted Sat, February 24, 2007 - 3:53 PM by 
Just wondering on this cloudy Saturday afternoon.
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    Sat, February 24, 2007 - 4:04 PM
    My beautiful pet serves me domestically, and sexually, and on occasion, I loan her out to serve others.

    I think the services she provides me that I value most are the domestic services. Cleaning, washing dishes, doing laundry, massaging my feet, putting lotion on me after my bath/shower, etc.

    I do love her service.
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    Sun, February 25, 2007 - 7:52 AM
    When I was last with a Domme--we don't see one another any more--she had me do your basic household chores like vaccuming, dishes, mopping, dusting, folding clothes, making dinner ...
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      Sun, February 25, 2007 - 8:28 AM
      When i really belong to someone, i enjoy whatever is asked of me. For some reason-and i know i'm not the only one who feels this way-i enjoy doing things for others that i don't necessarily enjoy for myself. Domestic duties, cooking. Body service, i love bathing and drying a Dominant, bootblacking, running errands, office work. i just love to have that focus and to be taking care of someone.
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        Sun, February 25, 2007 - 9:54 AM
        i am that way too pandora. When i am serving it is all of me and not based on my likes, dislikes and wants. It is more about what will please the person i am serving. What is odd too is how much more i can do in an act of service than for myself. i am trying to learn to serve myself too in the same mind frame so i can be healthier.

        Sexual service is hot to me too. i haven't done it much though and trust issues come up but hopefully things would be pretty well established before i entered into such a situation.

        Good question to the one who posed it.

        michele
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          Sat, March 17, 2007 - 4:04 PM
          I'm with Pam and Michele... I enjoy doing the mundane for my master... the cooking and cleaning, running odd ball errands (dropping the laundry, grocery shopping), massage and gardening as well as the not so mundane like making the impossible happen (like securing tickets for a sold out show and dinner reservations at impossible times) or costuming. I enjoy doing these activities for myself as well, but there's that extra special kick and rush that I get when I do it for my master that I don't get when I do it for myself. I feel so yummie afterwards, especailly when he tells me how clean the kitchen floor looks and how clean and bright and white the kitchen sink is. Sigh...
      • I totally agree! I am wearing my very first collar and things I detest doing for myself I find great joy and harmony in doing for Sir. I can't get enough of doing for him. It is like I am consumed with this over whelming need to do for him.
        I love it I will forever now be a service oriented submissive.
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        Mon, July 16, 2007 - 10:00 AM
        Doing something for someone else is very different for doing it yourself. As in serving someone else, devotion is impregnated into all of your actions. Using cleaning as an example... they can hire a housekeeper if they just want it cleaned. But that's not what they want, and it's not what makes it special for you. It's the internal energy and devotion pushd into the service that makes us do for others what we would not do for ourselves.

        Of course by pushing in devotion to the dominant into taking care of ourselves (because taking care of ourselves is devotional service), we can make doing things for ourselves easier, but it's never the same!
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    Sun, February 25, 2007 - 8:41 PM
    At the risk of sounding evasive, it really depends on who I'm serving.

    My most recent experiences have been as part of a house staff, where duties range from party service, to cleaning, cooking, and maintenance of antique furniture. Prior to that, a Domme in Sacramento allowed me to be the hostess/caterer at play parties she would throw at her house.

    The longest stint I had was with my last girlfriend and being a couple, my service to her was more specific and *ahem* personal. That period lasted nearly 5 1/2 years and spanned everything from folding towels her way, to making sure her wine was chilled properly when she returned from work, to running errands and making sure I opened doors for her everywhere we went.

    Generally speaking, while each serving situation carried its own rewards and challenges, it was serving one person for an extended period that really resonated with me. At one point, about three years into our relationship, she said she felt she was "pampered like a queen and felt more beautiful and desirable than ever" and that was a serious high point of my life to hear her say that.

    Thanks for asking this, it really made me dig up some wonderful memories!

    SMSapphire
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    Tue, February 27, 2007 - 8:38 AM
    I like to provide any service that makes my Dominant happy...ussually specific to whoever I am serving. These services can be sexual or non sexual. My favorite with my current tends to fall right in the middle...I love to bathe/wash my Sir. It is very close, can be either sexual or non sexual, and is very personal.
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      Tue, February 27, 2007 - 8:56 AM
      *Pink*

      I agree with this. When I am doing the care-taking like baths, manicures, foot massages, cooking, and just overall tending to the needs like these I get a true sense of peace. No matter how tired I am it is like almost a meditation to me and the sighs of pleasure from the one I am serving are my reward for sure (if reward is even the correct word).
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        Tue, February 27, 2007 - 12:36 PM
        Very much agree with the meditative aspects of service. Chop wood, carry water---massage my Master's feet...LOL But really--I find that doing such things helps calm me down on days when something has irritated me or otherwise wound me up at my work or elsewhere.
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    Wed, February 28, 2007 - 8:56 AM
    I have to say that my favorite service is cleaning. I really love to clean! I like that I can keep my Owner's house nice and sparkling for him and well organized. I try to put things where it will be easy for him to find them, or to know where everything is so that I can produce it immediately when asked. I love cleaning and organizing so much, that I've even volunteered to help freinds clean their houses when they move into a new place for example.
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    Tue, March 13, 2007 - 12:55 AM
    I loved to pleased my partner by doing the following:
    All the cleaning, dish washing and laundry. Or by organizing the closet or bedroom. Painting and fixing whatever was in need of repair. If she wanted a new light installed or the carpet cleaned, it was done. Or if she needed a custom desk of sorts or light set up. Or maybe it was some computer problem or a new Ikea piece. Basically, anything I can fix or build that made her happy. Though usually at the end of the day, when all was fixed a massage was next on the list. It was such a great pleasure to make her happy.
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    Sun, March 18, 2007 - 8:38 PM
    I love to be helpful, in what ever form that takes, like organizing a business or a closet, to fix things that are broken or figure out where to get them fixed, running errands, getting the groceries and planning meals. I adore giving massages and attended baths, I love cooking, baking and also making very special meals for ordinary days. I enjoy planning parties and social gatherings including a sit down 5 course dinner for twelve. I feel running a house is a valuable service, especially for an overworked Dominate. I love being a companion, a trusted confidant, arranging travel plans and just making life easier for the one I am serving. Sexual service of course is always special, yet that is for me, a sacred service saved only for the One to whom I am committed.
    • What a wonderful thread!!!! Oh let me count the ways...
      For me, i love any service that i can succeed at, which included learning more under the lessons of Dommes that are clear in what they are asking/teaching.
      Bathing, being sent out to serve Others, boot blacking/leather-care, draining & scrubbing hot tubs, food service, foot service, housework, massage, sexual service, and yard-work are all things that i am confident in my abilities and love to do.
      i tend to be more detail-focused, and just that feeling of meditative joy that i get from service is amazing! Not to mention, the energy that i feel from the Dommes i am fortunate enough to serve - the feeling of Their appreciation...it's not in words or gestures, it's an energy that sorry, no one can fake that...it's beautiful!
  • anything my one desires, well i am not with one for the time being...i know that if i am being told to serve a particular way, there is a reason for it...it is simply beause she thought of it... and she should not be kept waiting for long, its about prompt timing and complete trust.
  • I am a full domestic type: cooking,cleaning, shopping,washing and ironing. With my last Master I was up 2 hours early to wake him every morning with a phone call and 2 call backs to make sure he got up. I also gave manicures and pedicures. His dog was my responsibility when ever I was at the house. So I walked, excercised and groomed him. Of course I was to be sexually available at all times.
    • i really like to cook and clean, but running errands is fun! i find myself in a different head space dealing with merchants when i am representing my owner (though i am not owned right now). when i get to give a bath and other intimate service, like pedicures and foot massages, i feel so connected and close to him or her. but i also love doing formal dinner service. there's something about all that restraint and quiet that is so antithetical to all things auburn that it brings me back around into focus.

      thanks for the thinks!

      aubi
  • Re: What kind of service do you like to provide?

    Wed, August 1, 2007 - 2:24 PM
    I would find being a nude bartender at a bachelorette party to be interesting.
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      Mon, August 13, 2007 - 3:48 PM
      whatever i am asked to do! *smile*
      i guess what i really get off on is cleaning. when i am serving someone, nothing
      gives me greater pleasure then to do the dishes, vaccum, laundry, mopping the floor...

      the person i am serving now is training me on how He wants His housework done..
      serving Him in the shower, cleaning Him from top to bottom, kneeling to clean His
      feet. swoooon...oh my. getting worked up just thinking about it.
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    Mon, August 20, 2007 - 7:03 AM
    Serving makes me happy, but my current partner wont' let me do anything. I feel like I'm being punished ALL the time, making me wish I had another Daddy. All I want to do is keep the house clean, cook, iron, give massages, and foot rubs, and provide sex on demand whenever and wherever my Daddy wants it. Right now, I'm so lost, and depressed, because my partner keeps all these things to himself, and doesn't "get me" at all. I keep telling him these things I want to do for him make me so happy, but he'd rather not participate.

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